Suicidal Tendency
February 18th, 2008
With a recent break - up with his long time girlfriend who cheated on him, Max, a good friend of mine, had several suicide attempts for the past 48 hours. He has been talking about taking his life right after he found out how his girlfriend cheated on him. He was under the state of deep depression and he just cannot hold himself together.
His parents called me up the other day when they saw him overdosing on sleeping pills. It was the first attempt and the other one was just a couple of hours ago when he decided to mutilate himself at the bathroom. This is extremely bad for him and I have decided to drag him to a psychiatrist.
At the consultation room he was crying like there’s no tomorrow. He was swearing as though he was a guy that I hardly knew. Bottomline is, he was so different that time. It was as though I never even knew him at all.
The psychiatrist knew right there and then that this guy is about to kill himself in the next couple of hours if he does not feel loved. What she did was allow him to voice out whatever anguish he had in his heart and punch the bag right behind us. He was punching like a mad boxer who had nothing to lose anymore. After about an hour of total grief, he sat down and cried. The doctor told me to do something that would cheer my friend up.
I organized a small party for him at his place as a surprise and to somehow make him meet a couple of friends who would give out their support as well. Indeed it was a mental case and if this happens again, we are surely bringing him to a hospital. Right now, I am staying at his apartment to watch over him before he tries anything out of hand again. As of this moment he is happy I just hope that this continues. If you have people suffering the same fate, be with them and never leave their side. Make them feel loved and appreciated.
With a recent break - up with his long time girlfriend who cheated on him, Max, a good friend of mine, had several suicide attempts for the past 48 hours. He has been talking about taking his life right after he found out how his girlfriend cheated on him. He was under the state of deep depression and he just cannot hold himself together.
His parents called me up the other day when they saw him overdosing on sleeping pills. It was the first attempt and the other one was just a couple of hours ago when he decided to mutilate himself at the bathroom. This is extremely bad for him and I have decided to drag him to a psychiatrist.
At the consultation room he was crying like there’s no tomorrow. He was swearing as though he was a guy that I hardly knew. Bottomline is, he was so different that time. It was as though I never even knew him at all.
The psychiatrist knew right there and then that this guy is about to kill himself in the next couple of hours if he does not feel loved. What she did was allow him to voice out whatever anguish he had in his heart and punch the bag right behind us. He was punching like a mad boxer who had nothing to lose anymore. After about an hour of total grief, he sat down and cried. The doctor told me to do something that would cheer my friend up.
I organized a small party for him at his place as a surprise and to somehow make him meet a couple of friends who would give out their support as well. Indeed it was a mental case and if this happens again, we are surely bringing him to a hospital. Right now, I am staying at his apartment to watch over him before he tries anything out of hand again. As of this moment he is happy I just hope that this continues. If you have people suffering the same fate, be with them and never leave their side. Make them feel loved and appreciated.

