by Janet Bernson, The Healing Artist
copyright 2008
We hold the memory of every experience in our bodies, hearts and
minds. These memories carry emotional energy. There are some who
believe the earth is a school for all souls and that each of us comes
into this world to learn vital life lessons. There are also those who
think that children choose their parents. These ideas all become
much more delicate when applied to the experience of a child born of
a rape.
Rape is a violent sexual experience that immediately results in the
traumatization of a woman and can ultimately result in the birth of a
child, who is also traumatized on an energetic level. Rape has been
used to conquer nations and rob women of their cultural identity; to
subjugate and assimilate them into the world of their perpetrators.
Throughout history the offspring of rape have been stigmatized, often
brutally punished, sometimes murdered, simply for their existence.
Whether it be by a friend, family member, clergy or stranger, these
acts are further perpetration, again, for power and control.
I believe every unborn child has an innate sense of the welcome they
will receive on their birth day. Scientific studies have shown the
importance of nurture for the fetus while still in the womb. Children
who have been sung and spoken to in utero, generally greet their new
surroundings with enthusiasm and a general aura of peace. Those who
have experienced violence, rape and drug use within the cushioned
uterine walls, tend to not fare so well. Disruptions in sleep and
difficulties in socialization are among the many negative results of
a troubled pregnancy; the child, conceived in rape, comes into the
world with an energetic black cloud surrounding her.
Noted author and medical intuitive, Caroline Myss, says profound or
traumatic experiences and memories and the emotions from them become
encoded in our biological systems. There, they contribute to the
formation of our cell tissue, which then generates a quality of
energywhich reflects those emotions.
Epigeneticist and cellular biologist, Bruce Lipton, posits the
energy of all ancestral experience is stored within the cellular
memory; moreover, that this is perhaps more important than hereditary
DNA with regards to an individual’s emotional characteristics and
behavioral patterns. If mom was uptight, fearful and distressed from
the onset of pregnancy, it is likely baby will be, too.
A child, even having been given up for adoption, may still have
within her cells, this memory of the feelings her mother was having
as she was bouncing around in utero. Intellectual awareness of the
rape “secret” matters little, as the trauma exists on another, deeper
level of awareness. Though the stigma attached to being a product of
rape may later occur, the energy of the trauma persists and can
release itself in a myriad of complaints, both physical and emotional.
Although studies are few and far between, one interesting statistic
shows that over 70% of the pregnancies from rape in the US result in
live births. Though the percentages of those children who remain with
their birth mothers is unknown and of those children who have been
adopted, it is also not known how many may be “aware” of the
assault. Regardless of these percentages, children born out of rape
can suffer severe neglect and thus feel abandoned and unwanted,
condemned - as if they were the constant reminder to their mother of
the assault and therefore guilty, stigmatized and wishing they had
never been born. Certainly, all children have questions about their
existence and may at one time or another feel unwanted or ignored;
however, this may be more prevalent with those born of rape.
Once older, traditional talk therapy may aid the child of rape in
studying and coming to terms intellectually about their feelings
about the event. These therapies only, however, will most probably
not remove the energy from the body, nor have any other particularly
beneficial long term effects since the energy remains deep within the
cells. Too often I have worked with clients who “know” what is
wrong, yet cannot release it from their bodies or psyches, no matter
how hard they have tried to “think” their way out of it.
The question then becomes: Can an event such as rape be cleansed
and released from the cellular memory? Or, are these unintended
victims doomed to live with some emotionally defective byproduct of
the initial assault?
Many of the children I have seen in transitional foster care
programs believe they were born as the result of rape. Although
their records may be unavailable, real issues of deep-seated self-
hatred and rejection resulting from these beliefs often surface
during our expressive arts therapy* sessions. Intensive, energetic
work often helps develop an overpowering urge to survive and be
successful in life.
I have found several cutting edge energy healing methods which offer
real promise, including the expressive arts processes I have
developed. Among these Pranic Psychotherapy -
www.pranichealing.com, Energy Psychology - www.innersource.net,
Miasm Release Therapy - www.beyondwellness.com, and the most
important energy healing work taught at the school of Barbara Brennan
- www.barbarabrennan.com. These forms of energy healing are deeply
profound - their techniques are quite accessible and effective for
those working with all survivors of trauma.
All of the above forms of energy healing include a form of cleansing
of the energy centers. In eastern religions these are called
chakras, which are located in areas on and around the physical body.
Cleansing the chakras allows for destructive energy in the body to
lose its charge. It can then be replaced with constructive/positive
energy. Creative expression helps to direct the energy organically
and in a way which allows the emotional, mental and physical aspects
of self to heal. It is only too obvious the mind must be included in
the healing of trauma; moreover, it is the becoming conscious of
one’s problems, and constructively attending to them, which promotes
deep and complete healing.
While a child of rape may come into this world with an inner
knowledge they were a product of a violent act, they still have the
opportunity to transform this experience into a heroic journey which
ultimately allows them to rebirth into living with a strong sense of
self and a mission to succeed in the world with purpose and peace.
The energies of self- healing are long-lasting and joyful; and they
can transform victims into victors.
The expressive arts therapy* sessions employed by Janet Bernson,The
Healing Artist are multidisciplinary in nature and include the arts
of visual, written, theatre, comedy, movement,sound and focused
energy exercises. More information can be found at
www.thehealingartist.com