Marriage Therapists
When things go wrong in marriage and you deem that you cannot solve problems on your own, then its about time that you try to see a marriage therapist before resorting to a solution that you know will not work for both of you.
Once you get to see a counselor, the first thing that he or she will do is to ask direct questions to get to the bottom of the problem. His first task is to find the root of the problem in the relationship and expose what it is. The task involves finding out the history of the relationship and get important facts. After getting this information, the next task of the therapist is to find a solution that would compromise for both of you. The solution must work for both parties and not just for one and simply sacrificing the other. You would have to meet somewhere in the middle to achieve success of the therapy.
Seeking a therapist for advice is actually a good idea instead of simply sacrificing the relationship with inappropriate decisions. Sometimes, when couples get mad, they tend to say things that really hurt and do things that they would regret. It is far better to have a middleman when this situations happen. And no other middleman is better than a marriage counselor.
January 24th, 2008 at 12:27 am
Or wouldn’t it be easier for me to have an affair? Then If the mistress turns out to be someone I can have a long parntership with,( and I have baby with her by artificial insemination), then it will be more emotionaly easier for me to leave the marriage. I would also have my cake and eat it too,hee hee,just kidding. It is much easier to leave a marriage when one has another to go home to at the end of the day. It is better than being single and lonely and depressed. I have crush on a police officer lady that I met. I hope she asks me out.Then the first thing I would want her to do is to hand cuff me and have her way with me. And I have crush on a lady that works at a store but not where I work. But the question is this, How in the world does one know if these ladies are gay? I came to the conclusion that I am bisexual. I can have the best of both worlds. But I sick of men right now. I never been with a women so this should be exciting. And of course I am thinking about sex with her. Finally I have crush on a professional lady. She is hot.I wish I could get drunk with her and have her take advantage of me. So I think my idea would save a lot of heart ache and a lot of money on marriage counseling. Moreover, My husband and I are great friends, just not good as husband and wife because of culture conflicts. Finally, he wants out too and he does not want to go to marriage counseling.
January 30th, 2008 at 8:47 am
Ms Wessel advertised in Psychology Today as a licensed therapist and put her CAADAC - California Association of Alcoholism & Drug Abuse Counselors certification number under License Number. This is fraud. Substance abuse counselors treating co-occurring mental illness without the necessary education, training and experience is clearly dangerous for the patient and can result in serious harm. These counselors are NOT allowed to treat any co-occurring mental illness yet mine was treating me for Post-Traumatic Stress. Ms. Wessel listed her treatment orientations as CBT and Humanistic which was beyond her scope of education and training. Her resume posted in LinkedIn stated additional training education for Columbia State University. That was the school that the Feds shut down in 1998 because it was a paper mill handing out diplomas. When I asked her she said that she has no idea that the school was shut down. How do the consumers of California protect themselves I ask? The MAC after her name is not a Masters Degree, it is a certification called Masters Addiction Counseling. After spending 7 years in therapy with her and 100K later I am absolutely devasted that someone she exploited me and was so deceptive and there is no agency that can hold accountable since she is not licensed
April 11th, 2008 at 10:14 am
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