Sympathizing with my Friends

Words are difficult to express for someone like me. Sometimes, my friends even think that I am numb, without showing any hint of emotion even at the most stressful times. But I guess that’s just me, an introvert person who can’t express what she feels through words, even in facial expressions. On the other hand, I am not that clueless when it comes to expressions. I also show my concern through sympathizing, especially during the times of troubles. I guess this is my way of showing how much I care for my friends.

In showing this, I do three things…. things that I think are successful in making them feel that “I am here.”

1. I picture myself in their situation. I guess I won’t be able to understand them without considering their feelings and their situation. Since I am not that mature enough to fully understand an important issue, the only that I can do to make myself open-minded is to place myself in their shoes.

2. I console them. Such comforting words like “everything will be okay,” or “I am here for you,” can still pamper your bleeding friend despite the excessive usage of these words. Any expressions of encouragement gives them strength and a feeling that they have friends that care for them can uplift them.

3. I support them. I make sure that no matter what, I am there beside them. This is like making my encouraging words come true…. and no matter what happens, I’ll support their decisions and stick with them.