The Problem with Jealousy
Loving a person brings in a lot of emotions. Some of this emotions are very healthy and some are not. An example of an unhealthy emotion is jealousy. Being jealous stains a relationship. This stain could either be removed or it may end up staying there for the rest of your life. It is the dreaded disease of every relationship that has to be attended to one way or another or else it may turn up as the biggest regret of every couple’s life.
Being jealous gives the pain of guilt since it gives room for doubts and unnecessary quarrels which often leads to a broken heart. Trust is the number one weapon against jealousy. Try to talk to your partner and make sure that everything is alright between the two of you. Make it point that you communicate your feelings well. It is good to be open to others especially when emotions are on the line. If you do not open yourself to your partner, you might end up screaming and losing your temper which might cause a bad break - up. Being in this kind of situation is something that you do not want to be at for the next chapters of your life. So the best thing to do is to communicate. Talk your heart out and every trouble with jealousy will soon disappear before you know that it is there.


February 22nd, 2008 at 12:52 am
My husband will be jealous when I start dating again. He says he don’t care if I date but I know he does. And he don’t want to stay married to me, well thats his loss. I don’t care. I will move on with my life. Maybe I will go back to school to get my bachelors degree in psychology and then a PHD in psychology. I can’t wait untill our divorce is finalized. I will then throw a party and shout to the world, I am free. I will never make the same mistake again and get married. And fuck all the men out there I going to go after the ladies now. And I will have my own baby by artificial insemination. I definately don’t need a MAN.